He responded with saying that although he didn’t see anything wrong in it “it’s nothing”, he could see that it had upset me and so when I asked him to delete it, he went ahead and deleted his account.Q: The boyfriend I met online still looks at dating sites — should I confront him? Don't be duped into thinking that online dating is some kind of free-for-all, where normal rules of courtesy don't apply.Online Dating | News | Columns | Features | Dating Services | Niche Dating Online Dating Directory | Dating Humor | Quick Tip Articles | Online Dating Industry Industry History | Online Dating Reviews | Reader Reviews | Dating Videos | Book / DVD Reviews Reader Letters | Self Improvement | Experiences | Newsletter | Interviews Top 10 Lists | STD Info Center | About Us | Advertise Media Center | FAQ | Search | Contact | Dating Promotions • Online Dating Tips • Opposites Attract • Online Dating Safety Tips • Rose Colors • Guys are Weird • Dating Games • Online Dating Reviews • Creative Date Ideas • Long Distance Relationships • Dealing with a Breakup Note: Online Dating Magazine does not sell text links anywhere on the site, so please don't email asking about text links.Any links we have are affiliate links, resources we find useful, links to other sites we run or long-time magazine sponsors.It recently transpired that my boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to use before he met me.I found this out after he started to write something in a search engine on his laptop when I was sitting next to him, which brought up his history in the search bar and I asked “do you still look at …(dating website)”.She is wondering if this is alright, and if she should address him.My old boyfriend and I have resumed our exclusive relationship.
Do you have a relationship, dating or sex question?When I checked further I noticed he had been on there several times three months after our relationship began. I told him it made me feel like I wasn't good enough. Believe me I am not shy about talking about all of this with him but definitely I am not going to make it into a fight.If that is how he really felt then we should call it quits now. He spends most mornings trading stocks on the Internet and finds himself on the dating sites occasionally. We don't live together so I have to trust he has stopped. If he was dating or seeing someone else on the side then I would eventually find out. I find just by letting him tell me why he does it and listening to him I can help him to realize it will be a problem in the long run in our relationship; that his curiosity has effected my trust of him.I met my current boyfriend on an online dating site.He was the first guy I talked with and we instantly hit it off. I was on his computer a few months ago when I noticed that he had been on the dating site recently. They have to choose to be like that for the right person. It still doesn't excuse his previous behavior but now that it out in the open I can put it into perspective.There are some questions that I want you to ask yourself before you decide whether or not you say anything to your boyfriend: Spend some time and figure out why you are in this relationship, what you want out of the relationship, and how you feel about this specific situation before you talk to your boyfriend.I want to share with you that although your question is very short, I get a sense that you do not trust your boyfriend.So you can confront him if you want, but you should think realistically about how the conversation is going to go. "I kind of like you but I still want to know what's out there"? And why would you want to be with someone who feels like that?A woman has just realized that her boyfriend has been active on online dating sites.Those who bombard you with flirtatious emails, winks and witty banter but then dodge the subject of meeting up, and then suddenly disappear without trace, will be dangerous sociopaths in real life, too.And those who continue to look online for other women, even though they've led you to believe you're in a relationship with them, are slippery ratbags in real life, too.