It is not due to lack of any interesting things in each other’s life, but rather a number of external factors which fortunately in your case can be corrected.Conversation is driven off of shared experiences and unfortunately we have little sheets with check marks next to them in our brains about each thing we have discussed.The problem is that I am also slowly finding out that there are some differences in the way we see the world.Jen has a Ph D in marine biology, but her knowledge of current affairs is almost nil.
Last week I was telling her about a story I was covering.
I’m 31, I haven’t been in a serious relationship for a couple of years, and a few months ago I started using an online dating site.
I didn’t have very high expectations, but I quickly met someone who seemed to be everything I was looking for: beautiful, lively, intelligent, great fun to be with and interested in a more serious relationship.
You may find the answers don’t jibe with your own beliefs and opinions, but at least you got to know someone a little deeper before dismissing them altogether.
Most people are actually really interesting when you mention a topic they feel most passionate about.